Rejection vs. Redirection

A topic that comes up a lot when I coach my clients is rejection. In the midst of disappointment, it’s difficult to see that not getting what you want can actually be a blessing, and often is. That’s why it’s so important to help your clients reframe this mindset – it’s not rejection, it’s redirection.

Just because a relationship doesn’t work out doesn’t mean you’ll never find love again, it can mean that there is a better partner out there for you. If you don’t get that promotion you’ve been gunning for, it could be because your path to fulfillment lies elsewhere, maybe somewhere you haven’t even considered.

We are co-creators with the Universe, and often when something doesn’t work out how we want, it’s because something better is on the way. If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s that we can’t be obsessed with the how or why. We need to just put our deepest wishes and desires out there, and then remain unattached to how they manifest. That is how you experience the real magic of the Universe.

 

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